10/15/08

35 sex tip for girls

Phone sex
Sounds corny, but men are basic beasts. When he's least expecting it, phone him up and breath the sexiest moan down the receiver, saying: 'I was just thinking of you.' Then hang up. Make sure it's your man who answers though!

Stocking thriller
We love nylons and suspenders. If you wear them, go one better than most lovers. Put the knickers on over the suspender belt, instead of under. That way, they can come off, leaving those sexy stockings intact. Being inside our woman, while she's still wearing lingerie blows our mind.

Keep it trim
Shaved bits are a fantastic incentive to get your bloke orally inclined, because there's so much more to kiss, nuzzle and lick, but stubble needs to be avoided at all costs. Think about it, his face will be moving in an upward direction, against the grain, so avoid making him look like he's put his head into a box of feral cats, and keep it smooth!

Stimulate him
visuallyPlay up to his eyes with a slow, seductive striptease, and watch him go weak at the knees. Don't worry about labels or expensive lingerie too much, by all means dress to thrill, but you can just as easily make his heart race by tantalisingly removing your work clothes.

Be uncomplicated
This doesn't mean you have to be easy. Men enjoy a challenge, just so long as they know where they stand. So, if you want him to do something to you, he'll rate you for being up front about it, and eager to oblige.

Surprise!
Send him for his shower, and while he's in there start masturbating. When he walks into the room he'll be in for a great surprise.

Surprise him again!
Arrange when he comes in from work that you are in your sexiest undies or whatever he likes. Let him take his coat off then ATTACK HIM!

Get in touch with what makes him tick
If he's not the talkative type, use your hands to find out what works and what doesn't. Have a fiddle around, and see how he responds.

Guide him by the hand
Showing your man what turns you on can be just as arousing for him. If he's missing the mark, give him directions. If he can see the pleasure he's giving you, it will boost his confidence and help him to relax.

Lose your inhibitions
Go wild in his hands, and he'll be sure to rise to the challenge. Even if he's a little shy himself, by taking the lead you'll bring out the best in him.

Power him up
When jerking your chap off, alternating attention between the tip of the penis (which is extremely sensitive) to the base (which can take more punishment) will keep him extremely happy indeed and produce a more powerful orgasm.

Pole position
When you've grabbed his todger in your hand, don't just use an up-and-down motion. For variety, wrap your entire hand around the shaft, and twist up and down like you're following an imaginary red stripe on a barber's pole.

If all else fails...pray
If you're looking for a different handjob technique, the prayer position is very satisfying for him and less strenuous for you. Lube up your palms, bring the hands together around his todge, and make a gentle chopping motion. Not only will it prevent you developing an arm like Popeye's, he gets the satisfaction of seeing you use two hands when one will do.

Mix it up
Women love a blended orgasm - when more than one part is stimulated at the same time - and the same goes for men. Don't think of his penis as a hunk of meat attached to his body; imagine it as a complex bit of kit with many different components, each giving off their own particular sensations. A handjob is all very nice, but when you combine it with a swirl of the tongue round the glans or a caress of the balls (or both) get ready to step back.

Talk to him
Many men are actually worried about whether their cock is long enough, thick enough, and if you find it attractive. If you do, then praise it. Tell him how much you like it, then go back to him with your mouth. You will get his attention, believe me!

Give him options
Ask 'where would you like to come?' when giving a handjob.

The right angle
Try a slight swivelling motion with your head during oral. Just a slight turn of the neck is all that's needed. We don't want you breaking your spine.

Tingle bells
Most blokes are blown away by oral, in more ways than one. If you find the taste hard to stomach, gargle some menthol mouthwash before going down. It'll give an explosive tingling sensation to him, while making his privates taste more palatable for you.

Play ball
The scrotum is a wonderful thing; not only does it stop our two veg from rolling down our trouser legs, but it also tightens and constricts when we're aroused, making it extra-sensitive. If you're looking for the happiest of finishes during oral or masturbation, a very gentle pull of the bottom of the scrotum will increase the intensity of his orgasm.

Don't be shy of 69
If you're a 69 novice, start with the woman-on-top position; not only will you avoid the risk of being poked somewhere you'd rather not be, but your partner will have both hands free to give you further stimulation.

Swallow!
Strawberries, pineapple, watermelon and whole foods can improve the taste of your partner's emissions. Beer, red meat, curries and coffee produce the opposite effect.

Start softly
Take him in your mouth when he's still soft. The feeling of stiffening in the woman's mouth is a great turn-on for both partners.

Let him dominate
Sit your man on the side of the bed or in a chair when giving oral, or do it while your man is standing up. It's a great view for the man and the feeling of dominance is very powerful.

End it with a kiss
Kiss him after oral sex when you still have his come in your mouth.

Know the difference between praise and appraisal
If he was great in the sack then let him know, but be tactful if he's been lacking. If you can be constructive in your criticism, his ego won't deflate along with his soldier.

Water music
When using a condom, slip a few drops of a water-based lubricant inside the tip before you slip it on the head. It allows us to manoeuvre comfortably inside. Add some of the same lubricant, too, on the outside of the condom to give yourself a smoother ride.

Soft touch
Buy loads of pillows and experiment with heights, shapes, and widths, so you can use them for extra support during sex, to help give the optimum angle for different positions.

Chair man
One of blokes' favourite positions is where the man sits on a chair and the woman on his lap. It's one of the best ways to make deep penetration comfortable for both.

Girls on top
Place your fella on his back, and hoop the leg hole of your sexiest knickers over our old persuader, then go on top. If the underwear's silky, the sensation will be stimulating every time you move up and down.

Play all the positions in the field
If you're bored on your back then suggest something new. Athletic sex appeals to the sportsman inside every guy. Even if they can't keep up, they'll be aroused by your enthusiasm.

Round the back?
If you're trying out anal for the first time, be sure to remind your bloke that if he wants you to enjoy it and think about trying it again, your sensitive nerve endings are located at the tip of the bumhole, not right at the back, so a couple of inches and no more, for now.

Tie it
upFirst-time bondage practitioners: if you or your partner are a bit paranoid about being tied down and don't want to spend the entire session fretting about if you've left the oven on or not, simply tie the wrists or ankles but leave the other end untied. You get all the sensation of being bound without the fear of being trapped if you don't like it.

Let him play with your toys
If you want to introduce toys into your sessions but your partner is a bit iffy about it, start with the smallest, least phallic-looking toys in the shop, and let him use them on you, so he doesn't feel left out.

Deep throat
Having the shaft of the penis taken well into the mouth is very stimulating. But taking the penis deep into your mouth may make you gag. Try taking a deep breath just before and as the penis slips deeper into your now open mouth exhale (breath out) through the nose in a controlled manner until you withdraw from the shaft.

10/12/08

IS YOUR SEX IS BORING?



As a sexologist I get to talk to many men and women about sex. The funny thing is that most people I talk to tell me that they think others are having a much greater sex life than they are. Generally they say that their own sex is pretty boring and non exciting. The longer the couple has been together the more boring sex seems to have become. Of course there are couples that have great sex and have been together for ages. These couples are rare in my experience. A recent study found that in 2 years of marriage, the women's interest in sex had dropped off about 50 . There was also a lot less intercourse per week. So what can one do to spice up ones sex life? I like to think of sex in 3 flavours. The first one is partner connection. Women generally love this style of lovemaking. In this flavour the emotional connection with your lover is most important. Generally, couples when they first fall in love have a lot of partner connection in sex. There is a lot of eye gazing, touch and emotions flowing and sex is really just great. It seems to flow and there is much hugging, touch and foreplay. So how does one get more of this connections with your partner. One tip in sex to get more of this flavour is to open your eyes during sex. I find most couple do not even take a look at their lover. The eyes connect and the emotions can flow thought he eyes. for the more advanced, I suggest to open your eyes during orgasm. Most men find this a challenge but it can be done! The second flavour of lovemaking is what I like to call trance. In this style one goes into oneself and is totally in ones own fantasy, sensations or a trance like state. Eyes are closed as the connection with your partner is not important. Most men seem to like trance. I did have a lover that loved going into trance. However, I just felt I was a travel agent taking her to amazing places. Since I could not come along I felt unsatisfied. The touch was one way and I found this frustrating. I did communicate this and she did start to touch me more. The third flavour is role playing. This can be a great deal of fun. One can act out ones fantasies or take on roles of the sexual healer or priest. How about becoming animals?. Bondage games fall into this type of play. Generally this is more challenging for most people. However playing roles really can spice up your sex life. With my clients I suggest they start to explore the flavours that they are weak on. Most couples do not play roles as it is a bit scary. I suggest to pass through is fear and really start to explore. If you have boring sex, you are actually committed to this on some level. Challenge your lover to do something different and you might have to compromise too. Suggest your lover takes the lead in trying something new too. Above all, have fun. BETTER-SX-4U THANK YOU>>http://www.eioba.com/

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